Please understand that as a STANDARD member I cannot respond your emails or IMs unless your profile allows standard members contact you. No, you cant have my phone number and I don't want yours. If I didn’t give you my or ask you for yours, that means I don’t want it. If I say I’m not interested, it doesn’t mean try harder. If I say I’m not interested, don’t take it like a LOSS, take it like a MAN. Don’t be salty. If you think I’m fake, or a catfish, why even bother send me a message? Just don’t! I’m grown. I’m educated.

My Ideal Person I am a sucker (literally) for the big ones... but it’s not everything.

Someone that DOESN’T send back-back-back messages.

Someone that DOESN’T get pissy because I’m not ready run out the door and meet you tonight or even this week.

Someone who HAS good hygiene. You shower daily, sometimes twice - and ESPECIALLY before we meet. You don’t have 3” pubic hairs.

Someone who doesn’t LIE about their body size and package size. You don’t have to be a gym rat, but don’t catfish me with a picture of your abs from 1987 or perfectly angled dick pic that makes you look 2” bigger than you really are. If you’re 6” don’t tell me you’re 7-9”.