I’m a single Dominant Male, (DOB, FEB 1958 you do the math ), 5 foot 10 inches, brown hair, brown eyes, around 210 lbs. I’ve been in the BDSM and Swinger Life Style since I was 16. My friends consider me a quiet, honest, fair, and easy-going per. For me, a good time is going out with a small group of friends, or just staying in watching a movie with someone I care about. I do not have any interest in the bar scene, as I hate being in a crowd. I like to go back riding. Hiking is something I want to get back into, just need someone to go with me. Love to go out exploring, get in the car and see where the road takes me. Reading is something I like to do, western, action/adventures, military history/fiction, just don’t do enough of it. My taste in music is mostly country, old rock, a little jazz, but I try to keep an open mind on music. Although I have to admit, I can do without and opera. I grew up as a country in Oklahoma. Yes I'm and Okie and proud of it. However I joined the Military at 17, to get out of Oklahoma and away from my Mom and Step-Dad. My Step-dad was kind of a Jack of all trades, from a cross country truck driver (a lot of my summer were spent on the road), auto mechanic, welder, road and pipeline constructions worker. Mom was a short order cook, waitress, and homemaker. As a we moved around a lot with dad work and such. I respect my parents for the good and bad things they taught me and I give them credit for helping me to be the Man I am today. My great, great grandpa ( a full blood Cherokee) helped me understand a lot as a small even though I didn't know it then. He taught me how to have honor and courage. How to " see the trees thru the forest" so to speak. There are others as well, my uncle "Black Jack", an Oklahoma State Trooper, who helped me understand and deal with the harsh reality of life. Uncle Donnie for trusting in me and teaching me about women, and a few other things young men need to know. I will forever be thankful to a stranger ( Bill ), that took a young ( think I was about 8 years old) and showed him the hard love I needed. I give him credit for me being alive now. He took a young hot temper and angry and taught me how to control my anger. How to channel that anger in a positive way and make it work for me. I don't really have much tolerance for the people who get drunk just to be drunk. Don’t get me wrong I have nothing against having a drink now and then or having a few social drinks with friends. But if you have to be drunk or high to be cool or to have a good time, then you have a problem. I don’t smoke, and prefer that you don't, it ok if you do as long as you are respectful of those that don’t. As a country I learned about sex, from listing to my older brothers and sisters talk about sex, and hearing my parents fucking. You see, that one of the nice things about being the "oops" in the family. They sometimes forget your around. My "first" time was with a 30 something friend of my mom. I will forever be grateful for the time this lady took with me and the things she taught me. At 16 I was introduced to the Swinging and the BDSM lifestyle. I should say I was seduced into the lifestyle by a much older couple. They taught me a lot about having an open loving marriage and that being a Dominant male doesn't mean you are an abusive asshole.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for that special woman or couple that desire to explore the BDSM lifestyle as a submissive/slave. Who desire a possible long term relationship with a goal of becoming a 24/7 TPE slave.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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