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Brand New Year Brand New Attitude!
Brand New Year Brand New Attitude! It was a lot easier meet people on this site before I became a exhibitionist. People have a preconceived notion 5 minutes after meeting me I will take panties off and fuck you like a porn star. Unfortunately it does not work way. I am someone who can not build chemistry on a dick pic alone . I am also someone who is not going meet you after a one conversation. I met a man coffee last week Yes I stepped outside box and I am putting myself out there Before I meet someone I always tell them rules. We meet in a public place. We go dutch. I do not become intimate on the first meet. I can not imagine how awkward it could be meeting someone for the first time at a hotel. ,Discovering you have no chemistry or they are not who they portrayed themselves be. When it comes internet / hook up you can never be overly cautious. The man I met agreed these terms. However when we parted our ways he made a scene. Demanding I go the car and give him a blowjob. Treating like a cheap . Im so embarrassed I will not be getting coffee particular place anymore...lol.. Do you think rules are too strict? I definitely know I am worth waiting . Brand New Year Brand NewHair Maybe Ill have better luck as a feisty red brunette What do you think? Did you enter year giveaway. . is a lin..[post 42868] Remember beautiful friends are having point giving away contests as,well. They are linked on contest page. We are SUPPORT eachother. So stop trying to pit us against eachother. .thats lame. |
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Red Hot !!
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Oh you are right to rules for dating and men need to respect them. Not very cool to ask you to go out in car and give him a blow job that's just not right at all! I do not think your rules are to strict at all! Butch
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1/5/2020 10:43 am |
Beautiful looking mmm
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hot red looks amazing on you great attitude for 2020 ...i say you have to learn how to walk before you can run.......that's an old saying...i always remember good luck in 2020....tp all......
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Sounds like you and I have the same rules. I hope you a fun, safe new year. Dig your new look as well!
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Fuck that guy, you be you, you be comfortable with what you want!
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Your rules are bang on. How could any guy be such an obnoxious idiot towards anyone?
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1/5/2020 10:56 am |
I think your rules are very reasonable. If someone just wants a guaranteed fuck, cut out the BoodiGo middleman, and go straight for a hooker. Hopefully people want some sort of chemistry or compatibility, rather than just an available orifice or appendage. I have been in a similar situation, with a woman who seemed disappointed that I didn't want to have sex on our first date. Oh well, life goes on. And everything in that photo is stunning: your eyes, hair, skin tone, cleavage... Anyone who doesn't see the value in waiting for someone like you is an idiot.
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You are right to have rules and they are too strict. Happy New Year
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I hope you don't let that dick ruin it for the rest of us.
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1/5/2020 11:03 am |
I've had some good and some bad meets, the woman should be very cautious.
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I totally agree with you and your rules. I would expect the same scenario. HE was an ass! Please consider me in your contest, I could use a few points.
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Your rules are perfectly reasonable. Men who don't respect your boundaries aren't worth your time.
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You both agreed on the terms of your date...and should be respected by both...so sad you had to put up with such a person...hopefully your next date will have respect for women....best wishes to you !
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Good you found out what an ass he is. I wonder if it is because we are on this site, some think they are entitled to whatever and manners and respect are not warranted. Those men make it hard for the good ones here.
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He was an ass. Nothing wrong with the way you meet.
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Your rules are perfect, people have to show a little respect otherwise they're not worth it. I like your new look and I just love seeing that smile.
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"five minutes after meeting me I will drop my panties and fuck you like a porn star" - I'm polite and would not expect that at all. I'd wait at least ten minutes! Hope you have success in finding someone better than that in 2020.
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1/5/2020 11:43 am |
Good for you hon... You can never be too safe. It's his loss for being a dick like that. As for the brunette thing I love brunettes
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Well, Hot Mama, You're just a lovely person inside and out! Not to forget, you are also a very sexy redhead! Wow! As everyone seems to have confirmed, your rules are perfect. I would only suggest adding one more. If you have a friend that you can confide in. Let them know when and where you are meeting the person. Tell them when they should expect to hear from you, and what action to take if they do not. Whoever it is that gets to meet you, they should consider themselves fortunate. Happy hunting Happy New Year! Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH
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1/5/2020 11:48 am |
the new look looks good on you!
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1/5/2020 11:50 am |
You are hot no matter what color your hair is. Mmmmmm
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Your rules are both smart and reasonable. The guy was an ass to try and bulldoze your boundaries. Sometimes people do you the favor of revealing themselves unexpectedly. Suddenly your choice is clear. You are a star. You deserve someone who shines at least nearly as bright and can, at a minimum, follow instructions. XOXOXOX B.
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Your rules are perfect......and is as someone said.....they feel that just because we are here....that everything is a go. NOT SO !! Keep your rules and those that are worthy , will be fine with them. That will be the test~~
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1/5/2020 12:09 pm |
You're stunning, love your eyes
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thanks for sharing I like to change things up a bit underlying principles that we hold dear, are still dear I've changed my profile to reflect my true wants, and I think it lets people decide immediately if the risk is worth the reward good luck with your new attitude reminded me of this Van Morrison - "Brand New Day" When all the dark clouds roll away And the sun begins to shine I see my freedom from across the way And it comes right in on time Well it shines so bright and it gives so much light And it comes from the sky above Makes me feel so free Makes me feel like me And lights my life with love And it seems like and it feels like And it seems like, yes it feels like A brand new day A brand new day, yeah, yeah, yeah To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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youre always attractive, in all ways "well only get through this if we work together. if we dont, none of us will"
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Doesn't matter the hair color my friend, you are beautiful and yes we are all trying to support each other, because that's what real queens do only one person is trying to divide us and all of all blogland has realized who that is. Please Visit My Blog MAMACITA38DD
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You look awesome! Keep your standards high as you have listed them. It is a great platform. You can always tweak them a bit though out the year, if necessary. Have grand luck!
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You look hot as always ! Have beeen here four years ! And your so hot !
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Your rules aren't strict they are smart. That guy was just an asshole. I think more of you that you don't just jump in and have sex with just anyone. Keep being that sexy strong woman that you are.
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1/5/2020 12:56 pm |
Your body your rules. Don’t know the old look but the current one is very hot
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Sorry to hear you met another asshole. Nothing wrong with your rules at all. I never expect sex on a first meet. My rules don't differ all that much from yours. One caveat though, if the the sparks are flying, (in both directions) then go for it!
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Red Hot !!
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Your rules are perfectly reasonable. The guy sounds like a douchebag.
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Hi Mama Your rules are paramount for your safety.. Way to many idiots on this site ..This is a new year. I do hope you find your special person.. He will want to take his time to get to know your soul.. If he pushes or rushed you into anything your not ready for then he is not worthy of you Chris JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART
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Your rules are extremely reasonable and appropriate. Even if they weren’t, it doesn’t matter, they’re YOUR rules and any true man would honor them. Being presumptive based on what any woman posts here is just wrong. No one should ever be treated with such utter callousness and disrespect. I suspect the joy of getting to know the real you is totally worth the wait regardless of whether it ever leads to sharing something truly intimate. One of the wonderful parts of the journey of getting to know someone here is the time spent building that chemistry, comfort level and earning their trust. Any man worthy of your company would embrace your rules and cherish the opportunity to start that journey.
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The rules about a no-expectations, safe, public place first meeting? - I agree completely! (Though I CAN recall three first meets that occurred when I was already in the hotel room waiting. But these we all fellow bloggers - we KNEW each other - just never had met in person.) Now the rule about no more coffee dates? Well sorry that one seems a bit extreme. Lingerie Flash Event I May Become a Butt Man in the New Year Some New Years Questions for You, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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Good you found out what an ass he is. I wonder if it is because we are on this site, some think they are entitled to whatever and manners and respect are not warranted. Those men make it hard for the good ones here. JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART
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First of all, regarding your look: wow! you look gorgeous. For your rules "thing", it should not be required if, as I would expect, there SAS mutual respect, but unfortunately as shows your last date there are still many men which does not even known this word exists. I consider your rules pretty natural and appropiate, but it seems you have to consider a more restrictive rule ser ☹️ . Ultima publicacion: (16/FEB ) Ser agua Puedes contactarme en MI BUZON o q:1642318, o fuera donde dice mi buzon
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I am so sorry my friend this should have NOT happened to you. Your rules are PERFECT and men need to understand them and NOT EXPECT anything more. You have set boundaries for yourself, and I agree with them and anyone else who doesn't well they don't deserve a meeting or date with you. I hope your enjoying a very Peaceful Sunday..
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1/5/2020 3:17 pm |
You're rules are quite good my friend. Great pic you sexy little sweetheart of a lady. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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Not a thing wrong with your rules and you are definitely worth it.
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you did the right, drop him... you are not a cheap date your worth more than what he offer you . this is a new year something good will come your way.
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Jeanie, your rules are absolutely perfect. Those who disrespect them are not worth your attention anyway. My rules are similar. But not everyone thinks like that ... When I once suggested to a woman to meet over a coffee, she became quite abusive. No loss!
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Your rules seem perfectly reasonable to me. He was just trying to see if he could push past your boundaries. Good riddance to him!
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Your rules are entirely reasonable, that guy was a jerk, and an idiot, and has now blown his chances forever with you. His loss...
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1/5/2020 4:42 pm |
Your rule is very reasonable. If they don't understand your rules then they are not right for you. You should have busted him in the balls!!
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I have the same rules. And unfortunately, I had similar endings to a meet so I have become more circumspect before I agree PS I LOVE the hair (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with your rules. I'd would never expect anything like that from a woman on a first meet. IMHO I'd say the guy was probably just an entitled a-hole and you deserve so much more than that.
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P.S. the new look is fantastic
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Queen Janeane, You are definitely Red Hot Hottie!! I cannot believe some assholes would treat you like that in public. Your rules are meant to protect you and your self worth. Don't break them or set them aside for anyone. You know what is best for you. 2020 is your year love!!
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PS... did I tell you that you look amazing!!
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1/5/2020 5:26 pm |
Lovely picture, life's all about adapting.
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Your rules are not too strict. He knew them and even after agreeing to them he disregarded them. To hell with him. Better luck on your next encounter. He gives us other guys a bad name. Makes it harder for everyone else here.
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I like your rules!!! I personally like to know who I having sex with or without... Either way I like to know the person...
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Happy New Year to you. Your rules are spot on and I have no trouble with any one or all of them. I think meeting some one here should be no different than meeting some one in a chance meeting at a bar. You have to get to know that person at some initial level and build on it.
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Jeanie, stick by your rules. You deserve respect. Anyone who would ask that of you is not worth you wasting your time. Could only lead to bad news later.
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Jeanie, I also like you new hair style. I loved the photo of you when you didn't have all the makeup on. You are a very pretty lady.
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Your rules are your rules. It seems to me they are perfectly reasonable and safe. The jerk agreed to those rules knowing you would not have met him otherwise. Be strong and stay with your rules!
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Your hair looks beautiful Jeannie! What a complete jerk he is to try to make you do that. I truly hope you find someone who is authentic and treats you with the greatest respect. You are a great woman! Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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IMO your rules are exceedingly reasonable and smart, but even if they were not the guy agreed to them. He is clearly a liar and a fool. Love the new look.
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1/5/2020 10:37 pm |
You should have given him.a slap. You are not a cheap whore, but a beautiful, hit lady. I love the new hair too. I'd rather enter you instead of the competition beautiful, after we get to know each other and you are ready and willing for me to be inside you ofcourse x
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Jeanie There is nothing wrong with you having some rules. For one thing I know from talking with you.You are worth the time to get to know. Wish I was closer. Would love to spend time with you talking and getting to know you better then I do. Sucks when things go wrong after they agreed to the rules. Wish you could are me as a friend on here too be able to talk more with you. Have a great day Jeanie 💋 keep that sexy smile on
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Red Hot !!
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Do you think rules are too strict?... Not at all strict. Those seem like fair rules to me. I have rules , too. One of them is, "If there is no sign of sexual attraction nor sexual interest, then walk away". I definitely know I am worth waiting for. ... No woman is worth , "Waiting for". That's just wasting his time. A woman either wants to see the guy naked, or she doesn't. She knows one way or the other within 10 minutes or less of meeting. Most men, myself included, will continue to date other women, when one woman is just not sure. . I don't wait. It's yes or it's no. Anyway, "Dating" is never exclusive. Exclusivity takes time. Some times never happens.
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Jeanie There is nothing wrong with you having some rules. For one thing I know from talking with you.You are worth the time to get to know. Wish I was closer. Would love to spend time with you talking and getting to know you better then I do. Sucks when things go wrong after they agreed to the rules. Wish you could are me as a friend on here too be able to talk more with you. Have a great day Jeanie 💋 keep that sexy smile on "Talking and getting to know" .... doesn't make sexual energy happen. You either have it, or you don't.
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Your rules are very reasonable and should be honored by any honorable man. The men that expect something right away just because of the site we are on, are animals. And they don't deserve to meet or even be spoken to. I am sorry you had to experience that and make it a bad experience for you stepping out side of your box. Stick to your rules and you will find the few that will honor them. Happy New Year! Cheers!
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nice face and smile !!!!
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Welcum back dear. Your rules are just fine. They're very similar to mine. If anyone doesn't like it, just send them along without even a response. You're worth the effort and don't ever sell yourself short or doubt it for a second. I've heard similar stories from other friends here and even had a couple of friends physically assaulted when they said no. You can't be too safe. It's shocking to me that some people act the way they do. As for the hair, sorry I didn't even notice. Personally I never get past your eyes in your pics.
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Agree with all, except rule of no intimacy on first “date” , hey if there is chemistry why not, but I do respect your view and would never push myself on anyone, what a jerk that guy is!
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You are just beautiful to me . So sorry you met with a guy like that Respect is no longer He's the fool for loading his cool. You are write to walk away never to say hello again to him He has no right to say or want that at all. I'ld never do it to you or anyone I meet first or second time It takes time to know someone to be intermit with. Ope you have a better day alone XOXOXO
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Beautiful look and great rules.
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Your red hair suits you because it's so beautiful wonderful I'm your fan!
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1/6/2020 11:20 am |
Indeed Hottieville my sexy friend! Become an Apollorising58 watcher!
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Happy New Year Beautiful! You are always beautiful! Your rules are pretty standard, and no one should ask you to compromise them! Don't let the stupid pushy guys make a bad name for the rest of us! Most guys are pretty reasonable, or at least I would like to think so!
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Rules are rules. Yours were not to strict. Totally acceptable. The guy was a dickwad.
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We meet in a public place. We go dutch. I do not become intimate on the first meet. Do you think rules are too strict? No Sweet Hottie. Those are my rules as well. New hair ? Looks nice. I don't think you could ever look bad . . . ( PS I'm commenting for the sake of commenting, NOT to qualify for the contest as you were kind enough to award me points in a past recent contest. )
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The guy is was being a jerk. You deserve better. You’re a beautiful woman.
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Indeed Hottieville my sexy friend!
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Beautiful photo!
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You've always looked smoking hot, and you've never looked better.
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Young Lady, you be YOU, if he can't understand the simplest set of rules, kick him out without any hesitation . Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Hot Mamamm, your rules are very good and safe for you and if they can't be followed by the guy, he isn't worthy of your time. Love your new look and that amazing smile that instantly warms a person. Here's to a Great NEW YEAR! post 4285888]
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Red is good. This blog is written for entertainment purposes only. Mostly mine, but I hope you enjoy it too.
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Wow, your pic is beautiful. Love your smile and eyes, hotmamamm. You set the right boundaries, hope you are ok after the jerk's outburst. Matching with someone is a hard patient road.
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1/7/2020 2:51 am |
Dream woman!!
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No your rules are pretty much like my rules. Meet in public, no promises see what is going on first. This guy was an IDIOT and you smoked him out by not just hopping into his Car.
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1/7/2020 11:43 am |
I think your rules are perfect. I also like to meet first in a public place, chemistry and are they what they portrayed themselves to be, are two main reasons. If someone is not going to agree to that, they need to look elsewhere.
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There is absolutely no doubt that you are so worth waiting for
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I think your rules are fine. It's all about respect, trust, and comfort level. Thoughts from the Garden...
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You are right on point. Chemistry needs to be tested to prevent explosive results (just as my profile says). I love the look in your pic. All the best to you! Until then... Feel free to kik me, same username
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wow, some people have no class. Yes this site is to meet up to have some fun but you are not a pocket pussy. It is good and for your safety to have rules and no you should not bend them unless you feel safe and the chemistry. Stay safe and protect yourself when you go meet, have some mace or something .
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Red Hot !!
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Sad to say no matter how old you are you should always have rules. Safety first . The gremlins keep eating my links so go on my blog and you will find the contest. I appreciate you stopping by. Happy day to you
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Beautiful looking mmm
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Oh you are right to rules for dating and men need to respect them. Not very cool to ask you to go out in car and give him a blow job that's just not right at all! I do not think your rules are to strict at all! Butch
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hot red looks amazing on you great attitude for 2020 ...i say you have to learn how to walk before you can run.......that's an old saying...i always remember good luck in 2020....tp all......
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Thank you Corton. I never want to lose my self respect again. Yes this site is full of scary stalkers. I have had a few. Part of the reason I left for awhile. It is always great to see you. Happy day to you
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Sounds like you and I have the same rules. I hope you a fun, safe new year. Dig your new look as well!
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Fuck that guy, you be you, you be comfortable with what you want!
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Your rules are bang on. How could any guy be such an obnoxious idiot towards anyone?
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I think your rules are very reasonable. If someone just wants a guaranteed fuck, cut out the BoodiGo middleman, and go straight for a hooker. Hopefully people want some sort of chemistry or compatibility, rather than just an available orifice or appendage. I have been in a similar situation, with a woman who seemed disappointed that I didn't want to have sex on our first date. Oh well, life goes on. And everything in that photo is stunning: your eyes, hair, skin tone, cleavage... Anyone who doesn't see the value in waiting for someone like you is an idiot.
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You are right to have rules and they are too strict. Happy New Year
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I hope you don't let that dick ruin it for the rest of us.
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I've had some good and some bad meets, the woman should be very cautious.
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I totally agree with you and your rules. I would expect the same scenario. HE was an ass! Please consider me in your contest, I could use a few points.
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Your rules are perfectly reasonable. Men who don't respect your boundaries aren't worth your time.
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You both agreed on the terms of your date...and should be respected by both...so sad you had to put up with such a person...hopefully your next date will have respect for women....best wishes to you !
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Good you found out what an ass he is. I wonder if it is because we are on this site, some think they are entitled to whatever and manners and respect are not warranted. Those men make it hard for the good ones here.
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He was an ass. Nothing wrong with the way you meet.
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Your rules are perfect, people have to show a little respect otherwise they're not worth it. I like your new look and I just love seeing that smile.
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"five minutes after meeting me I will drop my panties and fuck you like a porn star" - I'm polite and would not expect that at all. I'd wait at least ten minutes! Hope you have success in finding someone better than that in 2020.
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Good for you hon... You can never be too safe. It's his loss for being a dick like that. As for the brunette thing I love brunettes
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the new look looks good on you!
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You are hot no matter what color your hair is. Mmmmmm
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Well, Hot Mama, You're just a lovely person inside and out! Not to forget, you are also a very sexy redhead! Wow! As everyone seems to have confirmed, your rules are perfect. I would only suggest adding one more. If you have a friend that you can confide in. Let them know when and where you are meeting the person. Tell them when they should expect to hear from you, and what action to take if they do not. Whoever it is that gets to meet you, they should consider themselves fortunate. Happy hunting Happy New Year!
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Your rules are both smart and reasonable. The guy was an ass to try and bulldoze your boundaries. Sometimes people do you the favor of revealing themselves unexpectedly. Suddenly your choice is clear. You are a star. You deserve someone who shines at least nearly as bright and can, at a minimum, follow instructions. XOXOXOX B.
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Your rules are perfect......and is as someone said.....they feel that just because we are here....that everything is a go. NOT SO !! Keep your rules and those that are worthy , will be fine with them. That will be the test~~
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He knew the rules ahead of time, what's the problem? You look great in any color hair! I don't think yo need red to be feisty.
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Thank you so much. I really do appreciate you checking out my blog. It is nice to have a ladies opinion on here. Happy day to you
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thanks for sharing I like to change things up a bit underlying principles that we hold dear, are still dear I've changed my profile to reflect my true wants, and I think it lets people decide immediately if the risk is worth the reward good luck with your new attitude reminded me of this Van Morrison - "Brand New Day" When all the dark clouds roll away And the sun begins to shine I see my freedom from across the way And it comes right in on time Well it shines so bright and it gives so much light And it comes from the sky above Makes me feel so free Makes me feel like me And lights my life with love And it seems like and it feels like And it seems like, yes it feels like A brand new day A brand new day, yeah, yeah, yeah
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youre always attractive, in all ways
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Doesn't matter the hair color my friend, you are beautiful and yes we are all trying to support each other, because that's what real queens do only one person is trying to divide us and all of all blogland has realized who that is.
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You look awesome! Keep your standards high as you have listed them. It is a great platform. You can always tweak them a bit though out the year, if necessary. Have grand luck!
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You look hot as always ! Have beeen here four years ! And your so hot !
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Your rules aren't strict they are smart. That guy was just an asshole. I think more of you that you don't just jump in and have sex with just anyone. Keep being that sexy strong woman that you are.
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Your body your rules. Don’t know the old look but the current one is very hot
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That is a good point. Counting my blessings as we speak..lol...It great to see you my friend. Happy day to you
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Sorry to hear you met another asshole. Nothing wrong with your rules at all. I never expect sex on a first meet. My rules don't differ all that much from yours. One caveat though, if the the sparks are flying, (in both directions) then go for it!
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great smile, best wishes for the year ahead
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Your rules are perfectly reasonable. The guy sounds like a douchebag.
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Hi Mama Your rules are paramount for your safety.. Way to many idiots on this site ..This is a new year. I do hope you find your special person.. He will want to take his time to get to know your soul.. If he pushes or rushed you into anything your not ready for then he is not worthy of you Chris
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Your rules are extremely reasonable and appropriate. Even if they weren’t, it doesn’t matter, they’re YOUR rules and any true man would honor them. Being presumptive based on what any woman posts here is just wrong. No one should ever be treated with such utter callousness and disrespect. I suspect the joy of getting to know the real you is totally worth the wait regardless of whether it ever leads to sharing something truly intimate. One of the wonderful parts of the journey of getting to know someone here is the time spent building that chemistry, comfort level and earning their trust. Any man worthy of your company would embrace your rules and cherish the opportunity to start that journey.
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Jack.. you always make me laugh Thank you
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The rules about a no-expectations, safe, public place first meeting? - I agree completely! (Though I CAN recall three first meets that occurred when I was already in the hotel room waiting. But these we all fellow bloggers - we KNEW each other - just never had met in person.) Now the rule about no more coffee dates? Well sorry that one seems a bit extreme. Lingerie Flash Event I May Become a Butt Man in the New Year Some New Years Questions for You, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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First of all, regarding your look: wow! you look gorgeous. For your rules "thing", it should not be required if, as I would expect, there SAS mutual respect, but unfortunately as shows your last date there are still many men which does not even known this word exists. I consider your rules pretty natural and appropiate, but it seems you have to consider a more restrictive rule ser ☹️
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I am so sorry my friend this should have NOT happened to you. Your rules are PERFECT and men need to understand them and NOT EXPECT anything more. You have set boundaries for yourself, and I agree with them and anyone else who doesn't well they don't deserve a meeting or date with you. I hope your enjoying a very Peaceful Sunday..
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Sounds like you can totally relate. I also found it is the same men on other sites. Maybe internet dating is not for me..lol..It is great to see you pretty lady. Happy 2020 for you.
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You're rules are quite good my friend. Great pic you sexy little sweetheart of a lady.
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Not a thing wrong with your rules and you are definitely worth it.
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you did the right, drop him... you are not a cheap date your worth more than what he offer you . this is a new year something good will come your way. .happy day to you
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Jeanie, your rules are absolutely perfect. Those who disrespect them are not worth your attention anyway. My rules are similar. But not everyone thinks like that ... When I once suggested to a woman to meet over a coffee, she became quite abusive. No loss!
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1/9/2020 6:39 pm |
Such a beautiful woman
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Your rules seem perfectly reasonable to me. He was just trying to see if he could push past your boundaries. Good riddance to him!
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Your rules are entirely reasonable, that guy was a jerk, and an idiot, and has now blown his chances forever with you. His loss...
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Your rule is very reasonable. If they don't understand your rules then they are not right for you. You should have busted him in the balls!!
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That is true. A lot of men and woman lie on line. Some people do not need chemistry. I do not understand..lol... I appreciate your input. Happy day to you
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I have the same rules. And unfortunately, I had similar endings to a meet so I have become more circumspect before I agree PS I LOVE the hair
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with your rules. I'd would never expect anything like that from a woman on a first meet. IMHO I'd say the guy was probably just an entitled a-hole and you deserve so much more than that.
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P.S. the new look is fantastic
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Queen Janeane, You are definitely Red Hot Hottie!! I cannot believe some assholes would treat you like that in public. Your rules are meant to protect you and your self worth. Don't break them or set them aside for anyone. You know what is best for you. 2020 is your year love!!
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PS... did I tell you that you look amazing!!
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Lovely picture, life's all about adapting.
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Your rules are not too strict. He knew them and even after agreeing to them he disregarded them. To hell with him. Better luck on your next encounter. He gives us other guys a bad name. Makes it harder for everyone else here.
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I like your rules!!! I personally like to know who I having sex with or without... Either way I like to know the person...
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Happy New Year to you. Your rules are spot on and I have no trouble with any one or all of them. I think meeting some one here should be no different than meeting some one in a chance meeting at a bar. You have to get to know that person at some initial level and build on it.
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Jeanie, stick by your rules. You deserve respect. Anyone who would ask that of you is not worth you wasting your time. Could only lead to bad news later.
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Jeanie, I also like you new hair style. I loved the photo of you when you didn't have all the makeup on. You are a very pretty lady.
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I don't know what you were doing when you were away from here, but you look marvelous darling. As hot, and sexy as ever.
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Truth be told I have had worse dates on here..lol.. this was embarrassing though. Great to see you Lonely. Hopefully we will catch up soon.
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1/11/2020 6:59 pm |
Beautiful
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I have boundaries, too. I think he was wrong with his demands and very rude. I am happy just to go have the coffee and conversation. I am slowly learning not everybody is a match and that's okay. I am sorry for your bad experience. Lots of good comments wit the same stuff I would write.
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1/12/2020 2:59 pm |
Wow. That is lame.
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Your rules are perfect, don't change a thing.
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1/14/2020 12:56 am |
natural and beautiful, I love this pic, kisses dear hot mama
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You are gorgeous!!
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Red Hot !!
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Your rules are your rules. It seems to me they are perfectly reasonable and safe. The jerk agreed to those rules knowing you would not have met him otherwise. Be strong and stay with your rules!
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Your hair looks beautiful Jeannie! What a complete jerk he is to try to make you do that. I truly hope you find someone who is authentic and treats you with the greatest respect. You are a great woman!
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Nobody likes to be rejected however your reaction to that shows your true colors. It sounds like you two have a great communication. That is awesome. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you
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IMO your rules are exceedingly reasonable and smart, but even if they were not the guy agreed to them. He is clearly a liar and a fool. Love the new look.
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Thank you. I love being a red head. I am a stubborn woman and will stay true to myself and my rules. I think we have that in common. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you
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Jeanie There is nothing wrong with you having some rules. For one thing I know from talking with you.You are worth the time to get to know. Wish I was closer. Would love to spend time with you talking and getting to know you better then I do. Sucks when things go wrong after they agreed to the rules. Wish you could are me as a friend on here too be able to talk more with you. Have a great day Jeanie 💋 keep that sexy smile on
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Very not and sexy as a red head Jeanie 😘
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Do you think rules are too strict?... Not at all strict. Those seem like fair rules to me. I have rules , too. One of them is, "If there is no sign of sexual attraction nor sexual interest, then walk away". I definitely know I am worth waiting for. ... No woman is worth , "Waiting for". That's just wasting his time. A woman either wants to see the guy naked, or she doesn't. She knows one way or the other within 10 minutes or less of meeting. Most men, myself included, will continue to date other women, when one woman is just not sure. . I don't wait. It's yes or it's no. Anyway, "Dating" is never exclusive. Exclusivity takes time. Some times never happens.
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He was not a prize..lol.. However it is a new year and I said I was going to put myself out there. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you
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Your rules are very reasonable and should be honored by any honorable man. The men that expect something right away just because of the site we are on, are animals. And they don't deserve to meet or even be spoken to. I am sorry you had to experience that and make it a bad experience for you stepping out side of your box. Stick to your rules and you will find the few that will honor them. Happy New Year! Cheers!
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Very weird..lol
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Yes I have learned the hard way that you have to be careful. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you
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Welcum back dear. Your rules are just fine. They're very similar to mine. If anyone doesn't like it, just send them along without even a response. You're worth the effort and don't ever sell yourself short or doubt it for a second. I've heard similar stories from other friends here and even had a couple of friends physically assaulted when they said no. You can't be too safe. It's shocking to me that some people act the way they do. As for the hair, sorry I didn't even notice. Personally I never get past your eyes in your pics.
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Agree with all, except rule of no intimacy on first “date” , hey if there is chemistry why not, but I do respect your view and would never push myself on anyone, what a jerk that guy is!
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You are just beautiful to me . So sorry you met with a guy like that Respect is no longer He's the fool for loading his cool. You are write to walk away never to say hello again to him He has no right to say or want that at all. I'ld never do it to you or anyone I meet first or second time It takes time to know someone to be intermit with. Ope you have a better day alone XOXOXO
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Beautiful look and great rules.
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Your red hair suits you because it's so beautiful wonderful I'm your fan!
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Indeed Hottieville my sexy friend!
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Happy New Year Beautiful! You are always beautiful! Your rules are pretty standard, and no one should ask you to compromise them! Don't let the stupid pushy guys make a bad name for the rest of us! Most guys are pretty reasonable, or at least I would like to think so!
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Rules are rules. Yours were not to strict. Totally acceptable. The guy was a dickwad.
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We meet in a public place. We go dutch. I do not become intimate on the first meet. Do you think rules are too strict? No Sweet Hottie. Those are my rules as well. New hair ? Looks nice. I don't think you could ever look bad . . . ( PS I'm commenting for the sake of commenting, NOT to qualify for the contest as you were kind enough to award me points in a past recent contest. )
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The guy is was being a jerk. You deserve better. You’re a beautiful woman.
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Beautiful photo!
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You've always looked smoking hot, and you've never looked better.
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Young Lady, you be YOU, if he can't understand the simplest set of rules, kick him out without any hesitation .
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Thank you. That was very nice of you to say. I apologize for my late response. Happy day to you
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Yes the internet is a crazy world..lol... I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you
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Hot Mamamm, your rules are very good and safe for you and if they can't be followed by the guy, he isn't worthy of your time. Love your new look and that amazing smile that instantly warms a person. Here's to a Great NEW YEAR! post 4285888]
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Wow, your pic is beautiful. Love your smile and eyes, hotmamamm. You set the right boundaries, hope you are ok after the jerk's outburst. Matching with someone is a hard patient road.
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Dream woman!!
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No your rules are pretty much like my rules. Meet in public, no promises see what is going on first. This guy was an IDIOT and you smoked him out by not just hopping into his Car.
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I think your rules are perfect. I also like to meet first in a public place, chemistry and are they what they portrayed themselves to be, are two main reasons. If someone is not going to agree to that, they need to look elsewhere.
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There is absolutely no doubt that you are so worth waiting for
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Uncool yes. That is why I never have expectations. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you
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I think your rules are fine. It's all about respect, trust, and comfort level.
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Thank you so much sexy friend. Happy day to you
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You are right on point. Chemistry needs to be tested to prevent explosive results (just as my profile says). I love the look in your pic. All the best to you! Until then... Feel free to kik me, same username
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Thank you so much sweet friend. It is always a pleasure to see you
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wow, some people have no class. Yes this site is to meet up to have some fun but you are not a pocket pussy. It is good and for your safety to have rules and no you should not bend them unless you feel safe and the chemistry. Stay safe and protect yourself when you go meet, have some mace or something .
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He knew the rules ahead of time, what's the problem? You look great in any color hair! I don't think yo need red to be feisty.
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I don't know what you were doing when you were away from here, but you look marvelous darling. As hot, and sexy as ever.
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Thank you so much Mike
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Yes. If someone is going to act like in public what are they capable to do in private. I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you
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Wow. That is lame.
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natural and beautiful, I love this pic, kisses dear hot mama
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You are gorgeous!!
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Thank you Leegs. You have been missing. Good to see you back
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1/15/2020 5:25 am |
First off the guy was an idiot. From my opinion when meeting people in general I never expect anything physical to happen. But I understand the frustration. However, to answer your question... no rules are definitely required for any kind of real life vs online meeting. Even if you were to look at meeting people in every day to day life we have rules or social mores and norms that we follow without thinking about it. (IE: personal space, just as an example.) Now in regards to the coffee shop, I would not worry about avoiding it, Even if said person were to frequent there, from the way he acted the staff would have him escorted off the premise.
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1/16/2020 6:11 am |
Very pretty. I’d go on a date with you anytime. Stick to your guns.
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Don't take what happened at the meeting personally, or as a measure of your making a faulty evaluation of the person or the circumstances. It sounds like the person was being intentionally obnoxious, in a revengeful sort of way, just to upset/embarrass you. Maybe as a way to get back power over you/the situation, by ruining the scene just like you 'ruined' his hopes. This reminds me of an experience I had years ago, with someone from a mainstream dating site. Although it was obvious during our coffee meet that we didn't have a sufficient connection to lead to something further (that is, a second meet), the guy, knowing full well that there is a very slim-to-none chance of getting a yes, suggested we visit the ladies' room so that he could 'feel me up.' I don't think he actually wanted that, it came off more like intentional meanness, a form of verbal humiliation. Something I recognized as a pattern of behavior when reading about Harvey Weinstein's mockery of women when they rejected his advances. In spite of the no's he would become more crude and verbally cruel, or, more likely, precisely because of the no's.
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Just glancing through the comments i didn't see anything that if you say "No " it means No and he was wrong in the eyes of the law ! Your rules are just fine as you need to stay safe as it is your body and soul, And he agreed to them by accepting the date !
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Sorry he tried to manipulate you on your first attempt at branching out. A meet and greet at a public place to get acquainted is the safest way to determine chemistry. You are worth waiting for.
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Hey hotmamamm! I just wanted to say that I hope that if you ever need someone to talk to, a person to chat with, let me know. I'm more than willing to talk and help. Even if it's someone to vent to, I'm your man. Hit me up and let me know.
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First off the guy was an idiot. From my opinion when meeting people in general I never expect anything physical to happen. But I understand the frustration. However, to answer your question... no rules are definitely required for any kind of real life vs online meeting. Even if you were to look at meeting people in every day to day life we have rules or social mores and norms that we follow without thinking about it. (IE: personal space, just as an example.) Now in regards to the coffee shop, I would not worry about avoiding it, Even if said person were to frequent there, from the way he acted the staff would have him escorted off the premise.
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Very pretty. I’d go on a date with you anytime. Stick to your guns. I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you
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...anything worth doing is worth doing right... never rush a well prepared meal... so to speak.... hold on to your principles... and when you do decide its time to eat... enjoy it immensely...
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1/22/2020 5:53 am |
I’d love to meet you! I agree chemistry is built over time! Let me know if you want a face pic
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1/28/2020 3:38 pm |
Your rules are spot on.....shouldn't meet any stranger from th internet any other way.. luv you blog..... thanks
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...anything worth doing is worth doing right... never rush a well prepared meal... so to speak.... hold on to your principles... and when you do decide its time to eat... enjoy it immensely...
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Your rules are spot on.....shouldn't meet any stranger from th internet any other way.. luv you blog..... thanks
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nice
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OMG i absolutely love your hair!
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Thank you hottie for being out there for nights like tonight.
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6/29/2020 12:26 pm |
Love the red hair wow so sexy!!!
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